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    <subtitle>A welcome distraction from life&#39;s responsibilities</subtitle>  
    
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        <title>This week&#39;s &quot;Stupid Man&quot; Moment</title>   
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        <p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="color: #000000; FONT-SIZE: 1em">Our cleaning lady comes on Thursdays – we&#39;ve established a pretty good routine when it comes to managing this.&#160; We both do&#160;the &quot;pre-clean&quot; the night before, I&#39;m responsible for writing her a little note about what to clean, and&#160;Adam is responsible for hitting the ATM (we pay her cash) the night before and dropping off the key at the front desk on his way to work.&#160; </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small; color: #000000">Today he sends me a note saying &quot;Did you drop the key off?&#160; I looked everywhere and couldn&#39;t find it.&quot;&#160; I ended up needing to run home immediately because he couldn&#39;t get away and she usually arrives before 8:30am.&#160; I didn&#39;t want her leaving (and not cleaning!) because she couldn&#39;t get in.&#160; </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="color: #000000; FONT-SIZE: 1em">I go upstairs thinking the keys had probably fallen off the counter and into our bag of plastic bags.&#160; It takes me FIVE SECONDS to find the keys.&#160; They were underneath the clean rags I had left out for her.&#160; He didn&#39;t even LOOK!&#160; So annoying!!!</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-size: small; FONT-SIZE: 1em">Why wouldn&#39;t he look around a little?&#160; Why wouldn&#39;t he call me before he left the apartment?&#160; Why wouldn&#39;t he leave HIS key at the front desk so she could at least get in.&#160; STUPID MAN!&#160; </span></span><span style="font-size: small; color: #000000; FONT-SIZE: 1em">I come back to the office and vent to one of my fellow female analysts.&#160; Her response, &quot;Well, brace yourself, they get worse AFTER you have kids&quot; -- Add that to my list of reasons I&#39;m not in a rush to have kiddies yet!!!</span></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Weirdness!!!</title>   
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        <p>I had THE STRANGEST dream last night... Adam came out of the closet!!!&#160; He told me he was GAY but still wanted us to have kids... didn&#39;t want to shatter the facade of our marriage and tell his parents.&#160; Beyond weird!</p>
<p>I woke up all stressed out this morning..... so, that&#39;s one way to start the day.&#160; </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Pregnant for 10+ years - this woman is nuts!!!</title>   
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        <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 13.2pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: 13.2pt"><span style="font-size: small; FONT-SIZE: 0.96em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Sent the below email to a bunch of my girlfriends this afternoon.&#160; Of course, my loving stepsister responded with &quot;Have something to share with us, Heike?&quot;.&#160; Um, NO!&#160; As I told her, I am sticking with our original plan: We&#39;ll have kids when my step-sisters are done and no longer need their highchairs, stollers, car seats, clothes, etc.....&#160; </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 13.2pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: 13.2pt"><span style="font-size: small"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"></span></span><span style="font-size: small"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span style="color: #3366ff; FONT-SIZE: 0.8em">To my dear friends,&#160; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: small"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span style="color: #3366ff; FONT-SIZE: 0.8em">May none of us ever do anything remotely like this – I promise to talk you off the fence, if you get close to even being pregnant half as many times as these people.…. This woman is insane!!!!&#160;&#160; &#160;&#160;</span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 13.2pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: 13.2pt"><span style="font-size: small"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 120%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><span style="color: #3366ff"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 0.8em">Among the &quot;fun facts&quot; listed on Discovery Health&#39;s Web page devoted to the Duggars: A baby has been born in every month except June; the Duggars have gone through an estimated 90,000 diapers, and <strong><em><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-STYLE: italic">Michelle, 40, has been pregnant for 126 months — or 10.5 years — of her life.</span></em></strong></span></span></span></span></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Is there ever a good time?</title>   
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        <p>I&#160;feel like&#160;a YO-YO when it comes to&#160;figuring out when the&#160;best time to have kids is - this Cathy cartoon goes a long way in expressing my back &amp; forth.&#160; I want Adam to be on board when I feel like I am ready, but can&#39;t seem to figure out when that is.&#160; We just hired a new Associate at work to join&#160;our industry team.&#160; It&#160;suddenly dawned on me that having a junior underneath me (finally) would make it a whole lot easier for me to take maternity leave, from a workflow perspective, and maybe now is a good time to start thinking of that.&#160; </p>
<p>But then we have a weekend like we just had - out with friends till all hours of the night, and I think, &quot;I&#39;m not ready!&quot; Although, there isn&#39;t really anything from stopping us from dropping the kids off to stay with grandparents to enjoy some fun, once we do take the plunge....&#160; back and forth I go... we want to travel, we want to buy a house first, I need to take that damn&#160;&quot;exam&quot; - when do we have time to raise kids? we aren&#39;t ready for the committment a pet entails... BUT, I don&#39;t want to wait too long either....&#160; and Adam&#39;s brother is expecting now, and it makes us stop and assess where we are.</p>
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        <title>Something Funny to start the day....</title>   
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        <title>No BABIES!!!  No BABIES!!!</title>   
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        <p>I haven&#39;t&#160;encountered a friend like this yet, but I&#39;m sure its only a matter of time!&#160; </p>

    
    
    
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        <p>For some reason, the fact that I was hungry woke me up last night.&#160; After an hour of tossing and turning,&#160;I finally got up&#160;and had a small bowl of cereal.&#160; When I came into the office, I told my friend about this odd behavior and the woman in the office next to him said &quot;oh, oh, the only time I ever ate like that was when I was pregnant.&#160; Have any news to share with us?&quot;&#160; To which my friend joked that I might start to cry.&#160; He&#39;s not joking - I had a pregnancy scare a few months back and just the thought of being pregnant made tears stream down my face.&#160; It was freakish... so, we had a good chuckle about&#160;not being ready for&#160;kids.</p>
<p>I sit down to start my day and the first thing I see is an email from my boss (she just remarried and moved her two teenage boys in with her new husband, she&#39;s been having trouble keeping up with our workload as she unpacks, tries to sell her house, and keeps an eye on her boys) -- &#160;This is how she started her email: <span style="font-size: small"><span style="color: #000080"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 0.8em"><em>Your plan not to mix kids and career will simplify your life to a great extent!&#160; My teenagers have been high-maintenance this evening…</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small"><span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 0.8em"><span style="color: #000000">Wow.&#160; Bad baby-vibe in the air!!!&#160; No babies, no babies!!!!&#160; </span></span></span></span></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Fun with Nieces &amp; Nephews....</title>   
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        <published>2007-01-22T17:54:14Z</published>
        <updated>2007-01-23T13:48:10Z</updated>
    
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        <p>Kids are so much cuter when they aren&#39;t yours... and if you only spend&#160;a few hours with them.&#160;&#160;How cute are these two?&#160; These are my nephews that are both about 15 months old (and&#160;were born only 8 days apart).&#160; </p>

    
    
    
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<p>This is how Papa &amp; Adam spent the majority of Julian&#39;s birthday.&#160; Hmmm.... looks like we will be getting a fusse(sp?)-table for our basement as soon as we have a house!&#160; I couldn&#39;t put up a photo of Anton &amp; Eric without putting up some photos of their big brother/sister.&#160; There sure will be a lot of kiddies running around by the time Nicole &amp; I add to the bunch.&#160; </p>
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        <title>Don&#39;t hold your breath...</title>   
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        <p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 1.25em"><strong>We will not be having kids in the near future.&#160; That is still two years away, easy!</strong></span></p>
<p>Last night we babysit for two hours and it really hit home just how much of your time &amp; effort a baby consumes.&#160; All of it!&#160; My friend D was coming in to Philly from the burbs for some philanthropic organization meeting and we had plans to meet up for a quick drink beforehand so I could meet her 6 week daughter &quot;Baby E&quot; and we could catch up (new mommy craving some adult conversation).&#160; I offered to babysit last minute, since she was running late and I thought it would be hard to attend the meeting with infant-in-tow, besides the meeting was only a few blocks from our apartment.&#160;&#160;&#160; I thought it would be fun and good exposure for Ad.&#160; </p>
<p>Baby E wasn&#39;t any harder to take care of than I thought she would, but&#160;at that age all babies are generally futzy.&#160; When they are so little, you can&#39;t really play with them - all they do is eat, sleep, poop, &amp; cry.&#160; We got a taste of all of that!&#160; Even when she was gurgling like a happy little baby and required little effort (just sitting on the floor rocking her gently) I realized how much effort it is to have a baby.&#160; Your whole life changes and revolves around the well-being of your child.&#160; Yikes - I don&#39;t think we&#39;re quite ready for that yet!&#160; </p>
<p>I know that lots of women have that &quot;I want kids&quot; feeling when they are holding a baby, and while I have had fleeting moments of that when holding my niece and nephews I really didn&#39;t experience any of that yesterday.&#160; I think it felt more &quot;real&quot; being just Adam and I with the baby, and not surrounded by family (and the baby&#39;s mommy) the second she got futzy.&#160; Also, having her in our apartment made it hit home how much our life would change.&#160; I took care of Baby E almost the entire time - Adam was helpful handing me a diaper, moving the rocker, making my dinner, etc.&#160; I was so preoccupied with keeping Baby E from crying that I didn&#39;t do much of anything else.&#160; I can&#39;t even tell you what show was on TV while we took care of her. </p>
<p>So, no babies planned for us for awhile.&#160; </p>
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        <title>House hunting begins</title>   
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        <p>Adam and I are reving up to become homeowners.&#160; More than likely, we will be buying a condo or a townhouse.&#160; We probably won&#39;t buy anything until after we both get our year end bonuses in February.&#160; Saturday was perfect weather to walk around the city so we walked through Olde City and Washington Square before miandering home.&#160; We would love to live in the Washington Square area, but it is difficult to gauge if we can afford the neighborhood.&#160; We went to two open houses for lofts in Olde City and have determined that loft-living is not for us.&#160; We just aren&#39;t a big fan of the open ceilings and the gap between the walls and the ceilings - why even have a door if you can hear everything from the other room over the top of the walls?&#160; Just seems silly to us - you might as well just live in a studio if you are going to live in a loft.&#160; </p>
<p>Visiting places really made us realize that we need to figure out just what our price range is before we do anything else.&#160; At the second place we toured, we met a really nice real estate broker who was extremely personable and helpful.&#160; We both got a good vibe from him (he wasn&#39;t too salesman-y) and think we might use him when we get serious about buying.&#160; We need to get pre-approved for a mortgage before we do anything else.&#160; Luckily, the fact that Adam works at a bank should be very beneficial, since they offer slightly discounted mortgages to employees.&#160; </p>
<p>Adam has spent plenty of hours playing on relator webpages, so we are getting a sense of what is out there.&#160; We are starting to narrow down our house criteria.&#160;&#160;</p>
<p>Here is what we have determined so far:</p>
<p>2 Bedroom/1.5 Bath</p>
<p>At least 1,100 square feet (what we have now, nothing smaller)</p>
<p>30 min or less commute</p>
<p>We aren&#39;t willing to spend more on a mortgage than we are currently paying in rent</p>
<p>We really need a place that we can grow into.&#160; We plan on having kids&#160;in 2 or 3 years and need to buy something that will accomdate our plans.&#160; My current thinking is that we would get an au pair for the first year or so, because I would like to continue to work.&#160; Maybe after baby #2 I would consider taking time off or working part-time, but I wouldn&#39;t want to quit working right away.&#160; That would mean that we need a room (and ideally a bathroom) for the au pair.&#160; Who knows if we can afford this - I realize I am in la-la-la land right now.&#160; That&#39;s why getting pre-approved for a mortgage is the next step for us.</p>
<p>We stopped at Borders on our way home yesterday and bought a book for first time home buyers.&#160; It has already been extremely helpful and today we started investigating our credit reports.&#160; I have a clean bill of health, but we had a lot of trouble accessing Adam&#39;s records.&#160; I&#39;m sure everything will be fine, but Adam is a little concerned by the uncertainty.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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